So, to cut a long story short, what the fuck happened? Well, you guessed it, I dropped the ball. The reason I’m sharing this with you is because even if you’re in the middle of hot xxx action or you’re a couple of bases away from fucking a new chick, it’s too easy to freak out. It’s too easy to lose sight of the situation and do the wrong things at the wrong time thinking the wrong things and making an ass out of yourself.
Now, thankfully, I didn’t make a jackass out of myself. I had a nifty little excuse. My buddy was getting his wisdom teeth removed that afternoon and I had that awesome excuse. She knew my buddy so everything was good to go.
But the point is that I was really scared of what was going on. She was outside of my comfort zone because I normally do not date thick, voluptuous European women. I tended to focus on small, dark, Asian, thin women. That was just my speed and I had this opportunity and it fucking freaked me out.
Well, if you’re going to get into adult dating using AdultXXXdate, understand the following. First, life isn’t the movies and by movies, I’m talking, of course, about adult movies. It’s not like you just show up and you’re the mailman and a chick drops to her knees and sucks your dick. It doesn’t work that way.
You have to connect with that person and focus on that person. Which brings up my second point. Fuck your insecurities. Seriously. Forget about what other people might think. Forget about dropping the ball because that kind of shit will just freak you out. Focus, instead, on the moment.
What you have with that person is a very special moment. You’re attracted to each other. Let the electricity flow and you’d be surprised as to where you would end up. Now, this doesn’t have to mean that you have to fuck her. It doesn’t mean that she has to fuck you. Instead, just enjoy that moment of attraction because that’s what makes us human.
We explore what else is out there and we break past our self imposed barriers. Do you see how this works? So do yourself a big favor and forget the bullshit rules that you’ve set for yourself. Fuck all the expectations and just enjoy yourself in the moment and allow yourself to flow with the energy.
If you keep this up, you would be more flexible, you would be more open minded, and yes, life would be a lot more fun. I’m not just talking about sex. I’m also talking about all other areas of your life. Life is meant to be lived.